Welcome to Marriage Help
Reasons for Rules on Sex
I had a young person write to me at MarriageHelp.com and complain about my "old fashioned" ideas. This person was letting me know that our society had outgrown old rules about what we should expect from our sexual relationships. They had read my lesson called …
There's Something About That Name
There's Just Something About That Name from PastorBobDouglas on Vimeo. Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, we have been together for a very long time. I was introduced to you as a small child. I needed someone who was strong enough to keep the "bad things" away from me. You …
What are you going to do?
Please DON'T watch this video! It will jerk your heart out. It will make you cry. It will tear you up...and make you think in ways you have never done before! This message will change you. If you don't want to be a different person than you right NOW...don't …
Testimonial: Our Premarital Counseling Experience
Pastor Bob Douglas' counseling helped us in many ways. I, for one, never realized how differently men are "made" than women. For instance, I learned about the things that were most important to my husband-to-be, and no, not just the obvious. It was about …
The Path to Infidelity - Part 4
This is the fourth lesson in this series and it asks the question, "What happens if you do face infidelity?" Does finding that your spouse was unfaithful mean that you must get a divorce? NO! It means you have a problem to deal with.
The Path to Infidelity - Part 3
This third lesson in our four part series is entitled Keeping Inside the Fences. Normal human beings have a healthy fear of intimacy. Intimacy is dangerous and makes us very vulnerable to harm. We have a defensive “fence" around us to keep people away from us …
The Path to Infidelity - Part 2
This is the second lesson in the series "The Path to Infidelity" which I have entitled How to Lead a Healthy Life. After our discussion in the first lesson, we can now say, Okay, you are God's Person. But what does that look like? First of all, if you are …
The Path to Infidelity - Part 1
You don't have to be a sport's superstar, a nationally known political leader or a television celebrity to know that sexual infidelity is disastrous! All you need to see are friends and coworkers, family and classmates, watch the evening news on TV or read the …
Who Owns Your Emotions?
I told my children as they were growing up, "Don't give anyone the power to control your emotions!" How many times have you heard someone say, "That person makes me SO MAD"? Sometimes it is stated, "As soon as that guy walks into the room he gets me angry." I …
Hope and Love
It is very easy to feel trapped and hopeless. One cannot give or receive love once hope is lost. We simply must not give up when we feel like we are at a dead end. Hope is still an option. Hope - When you are going through a troubled time from PastorBobDouglas …